Hey, this is Dean Cortez, the guy who literally "wrote the book" on how to pick up girls. I would like to share some more quick ideas to help you with meeting beautiful Asian women. (Because the truth is, dating Asian girls requires specific tactics that you wouldn't use with non-Asian women...)
OK, let's get started. This 1st point on dating Asian girls might possibly appear a little obvious, but it's super-important for you to show cleanliness and good personal hygiene when you're hanging out with Asian girls. This is really important to them! They truly believe in the saying, "cleanliness is next to Godliness."
You can tell how much magnitude beautiful Asian women put on personal hygiene just by observing the way they take care of their appearance. Asian women will not leave the house without meticulously fixing their makeup and hair -- even if they just need to go down the street to buy groceries. (Unlike a lot of American girls, who will just throw on a baseball cap and pair of sweatpants.)
So whenever you're dating Asian women -- or you want to attract Asian women -- you absolutely must look clean, well-groomed and presentable. It's always better for you to be slightly over-dressed, rather than under-dressed.
Especially when you're out on dates with Asian girls! You should always assume that a beautiful Asian woman is going to show up looking her best. If she shows up wearing a classy dress and you walk in wearing shorts and a tee-shirt, you can forget about ever seeing that girl again.
Extra word of advice: If you have been wearing facial hair, you should strongly consider getting rid of it. Go with a clean-shaven look. Women (not just Asian women) almost universally agree that they prefer clean-shaven men. But this is especially important with Asian girls, who have sensitive skin and really don't want to rub up against your beard or your rough stubble. Plus, Asian men rarely have facial hair. (If you've worn a beard or a goattee for years, shaving it off is also a great way to make a "fresh start" and feel good about your appearance.)
My next tip on dating Asian women: you've got to communicate to Asian girls that you are an organized guy who has his life in order. They don't understand people who are constantly "soul searching" and trying to figure out what they want out of life. In their culture, the men work hard, and with a sense of purpose, and they are totally self-sufficient. If you're sharing a messy apartment with a roommate, and you don't appear to be making any forward progress with your life, it's going to be very difficult for you to attract high-quality Asian women.
This does not mean that you need to make tons of money, or have some impressive high-powered career. It simply means that you must be able to show women that you're organized. If you live in an apartment, you should keep it clean. (If possible, hire a maid to come in once a week and make the place spotless.)
You should not be saddled with a lot of debt. And when you're hanging out with Asian women, you should mention your plans for the future and ambitions. She will then imagine herself as part of your future.
Western women will often feel attracted to guys who are slackers or "bad boys." It's possible for a guy to have no direction in life, but still pull Western women because he turns them on sexually. Asian women don't fall for this. Actually, they are repelled by these types of men. They require a man to be stable and secure, because that's the only way THEY will feel secure. Beautiful Asian girls are turned off by this type of guy. They want a man who is STABLE and can make them feel secure.
By projecting calmness, masculine confidence, and a sense that you are in firm control of your present and future, you will become highly attractive to Asian women. This is great advice for getting your relationships with Asian women started in the right way. Next time I'm going to talk about some more specific approaches and skills for dating Asian women, including approach tactics. I'll even give you some very helpful advice to help you meet beautiful Asian women on the Internet (the ones that all the guys are competing for).
More Secrets Of Seducing Asian Women...
If you are not from Asia, beautiful Asian women may seem mysterious to you. Their ways, and their attitude towards dating and relationships, are quite distinct from European girls or girls from other parts of the world. And then there is a rich sense of cultural heritage that many Asian women have, which further differentiates them from all other women. Personally, I think Asian women can be some of the most attractive of all Asian women, and I've dated many -- so I have some special insights into dating beautiful Asian women which I think you'll find beneficial.
The first thing to keep in mind is that hot Asian women are used to guys taking them out on "traditional" dates and trying to impress them by spending money, and trying to talk about their own positive qualities in an attempt to impress her. The simple truth is, she has heard all this before in a lot of versions and variations. In this case less is more. The less you try to impress her, the more a girl (particularly an Asian girl) will be impressed. Try listening to her and getting her to talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This throws her off guard as you are different and challenging, and hot Asian girls like a guy who presents a sense of challenge -- and a bit of mystery, too.
The bottom line is, never try to date a beautiful Asian girl in the normal, predictable Western style. That means, don't try the traditional dating moves: spending money taking her to dinner and a movie, getting a goodnight kiss (at most), and then no more calls from her.
This type of date is not only predictable; it also adds pressures and expectations to the evening. These is what every one else has been doing with her. Try something easier, cheaper and less conventional. Meet up with her for drinks, or a cup of coffee. She is less prepared and expectant. This way, the date won't be burdened with expectations. You'll act more relaxed, and she will loosen up and enjoy the conversation more.
Every guy tries to get attractive Asian girls out on a date and impress them by talking about themselves and spending money. In reality, she has heard it all before in many variations and versions. Less is more in this type of situation. The less you try to impress her, the more the Asian girl is impressed. Try listening to her and getting her to talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This makes you seem very different from all of the other guys who have taken her on dates and tried to win her approval. Be a bit naughty. Don't answer her questions directly; be playful and make something up when she asks you about your job, or your background. Don't ever give her the sense that you're blown away by her looks. Naughty actions and statements leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are. Projecting a playful "bad boy vibe" (but not overdoing it) can go a long way with sexy Asian girls.
Hot Asian girls get a lot of admirers and so you have to be different to leave an impression. Most of them would want to give you little test to see how firm you are. This is why you shouldn't agree with everything she says. Sometimes you can playfully yet firmly resist or refuse her.
If she knows that you are admired and wanted by other hot Asian girls, even better. This is why you shouldn't focus all of your time and attention on one Asian girl. Let them know that you're friends with other hot Asian girls, and project the sense that you've got a busy social life. You will surprised with the results.
Next, realize that most Asian women have very strong ties to their families. If you meet an Asian girls you would likely notice that family bounds are more respected within them. So get to know more about her family. Show interest in her family, make a positive impression on all of them, and it will unquestionably boost your chances of success.
In Asian societies, honesty is also a quality that is considered highly important. Men of honor never abandon their responsibilities or break their commitments. If you wish to make an impression on beautiful Asian girls, you have to prove to them that you can be such a man of honor.
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